● Embryo adoption/donation provides hopeful parents with the gift of life in the form of a donated embryo. These embryos are generously donated by couples who have undergone fertility treatments. Their selfless act provides an opportunity for other couples or individuals to fulfill their dream of becoming parents. Depending on the choice of the embryo donor, they may choose to remain non identified/anonymous, have a semi-open, or open relationship with the recipient parents.

- Non-Identified/Anonymous: In non-identified adoption cases, both the donor and intended parent maintain anonymity, with no exchange of identifying information. Our team facilitates the matching process and manages all necessary transfer details, ensuring a seamless and confidential experience for both parties.

- Semi-Open: Semi-open adoptions offer a middle ground, granting donors the option to maintain contact with recipients while preserving certain privacy boundaries. Through our partner platform, EDC Nexus, limited communication is monitored, allowing for updates on medical and lifestyle matters in real-time. Additionally, donors and recipients can choose to communicate through the platform, fostering a connection while respecting individual preferences.

- Open: For those seeking a more transparent and intimate relationship, open adoption cases facilitate full disclosure of identities and contact information. Communication typically occurs through personal emails, and families have the opportunity to meet in person regularly. Our team facilitates these matches, providing both parties with each other's contact details for direct and open communication, as well as registration on EDC Nexus for ongoing support and connection.

● The first step is to complete our pre-screen application: https://aokembryos.eggdonorconnect.com/donorprescreen/
● In order to prevent an automatic denial, we require that you complete the application within 30 days.
● Embryo donation is a process that requires us to obtain your medical records in order to determine if we can accept your embryo donation. We will send a form that you must sign which will allow us to request your IVF records. The sooner the application is completed, the sooner we can request your records and review your donation case for acceptance.

● We do not accept abnormal embryos
● We do not accept high mosaic embryos
● We prefer the genetic female or oocyte source to have an age of 37 or less at the time of the IVF cycle. This is a preference only, and we will review all donations on a case-by-case basis to determine if they qualify so do not let this deter you from applying if you were over 37.
● If you did not have FDA labs at the time of your embryo creation, we will require that you have labs drawn prior to your embryo donation.

Personhood Laws Surrounding Embryo Donation:
I/we understand that the state or locality in which the donated embryo(s) are stored by AOK or its agents or the federal government may pass and adopt laws assigning personhood, and all rights associated with personhood, to the embryo (“Personhood Laws”). In such circumstances, I/we understand that AOK may, at its sole discretion, return the cryopreserved embryos or me/us. In such instances, I/we will receive and store the returned embryos in a manner consistent with state and federal statutes, rules, and regulations. I/we agree that AOK and its agents will not be held civilly liable by me/us (or my/our agents) for any action arising under the state, local, or federal Personhood Laws.

● No, if we can accept your donation, we will take care of the shipping cost. There is no cost to donate your embryos to our program.

● No compensation is provided. Please understand that embryo donor(s) cannot be compensated for donating their embryo(s).

● Yes, we would love to assist you. Please see AOK embryo donation guidelines for details and next steps to complete your pre-screening form.

● A recipient is a person (or family) that uses donated embryos to achieve pregnancy and experience the gift of parenthood through embryo adoption/donation. Embryo donation is a process where couples or individuals who have undergone in vitro fertilization (IVF) choose to donate their remaining frozen embryos to another couple or individual. Recipients match with embryos rather than a fully developed child. The donating family releases ownership of the embryo(s), which is then transferred to the recipient(s), allowing them to experience pregnancy and childbirth. Unlike traditional adoption, where parents adopt an already born infant, embryo adoption/donation enables the recipient parent to carry their genetically unrelated child. It’s a unique way for families to grow and give embryos a chance for life.

● The first step is to get registered in our database as a recipient. For free access, please fill out the form on our for recipients page.

On average, for a single embryo adoption with FET treatment most families spend between $10,000-$20,000 depending on the adoption type and additional services requested. All recipients receive the same flat fee ($7,000) for a donor’s full cohort of embryos with us. By including the set of embryos in our package fees, we hope to open more doors for our recipients who are looking for affordable family planning options.

We have also partnered with Arbor Fertility to create a new self-pay bundle that includes the FET treatment!! 

Package Fee: $10,000.00

Includes:

Matching Services: Personalized matching to find the perfect embryo for your family, lifetime access to our database, records management, and admin fees. 

Embryo Ownership Document Preparation and Execution: Professional assistance to ensure all ownership documents are in order, execution of transfer of ownership of the embryo(s), personalized summary of all embryo related records, shipping and/or treatment coordination with your receiving clinic.

Up to 3 Ultrasounds

Ultrasound Guided Embryo Transfer 

1 Virtual Follow Up Visit for Results 

1st year of embryo storage fees waived

Does not Include: 

EDC Nexus (Monitored Donor and Recipient Communication Dashboard) $500 Lifetime membership- This fee applies to all Semi-Open & Open embryo adoptions.

Processing Fees: 3% for credit card payments, 1% for bank transfers

Medications - Typically ranges from $800-$1,000

Diagnostic Testing and Infectious Disease screening - Can be billed to insurance by the Lab (Estimated $300 for self-pay, but can be billed to insurance.)

Yes, we keep it simple! Our fees are a flat $7,000 whether you adopt a set with a single embryo or a set that has multiple embryos. If you plan to adopt from more than one set, please reach out to us.

● No, however, we do offer financing options and our partner clinic does accept insurance for the FET treatment.

● Yes, we work with Future Family, Capex, and Lending Club for AOK lending.

● Yes, however, you must select an embryo profile that has had all of the FDA required testing.
● Your clinic must also accept the profile that you intend to match with, prior to finalizing the transfer of ownership.

● If you are working with a surrogacy agency, each has their own process, and it is important to find out their guidelines before moving forward.
● There is a medical and legal process that is required. We can help connect you with agencies, and attorneys that specialize in reproductive law.

We work with Alease Daniels, an accomplished Embryologist and educator. You may book a consultation with her after registering as a recipient in our database, speaking with the AOK team, and selecting a few profiles. The consultation fee is $200, however, when booking use the code: AOK to receive a $50 discount. https://aleasetheembryologist.com/for-patients/

● Embryo grading is a process where a trained embryologist evaluates the quality of embryos during fertility treatments. They look at factors like cell number, symmetry, and appearance to determine which embryos are most likely to result in a successful pregnancy. This helps guide decisions for treatments like in vitro fertilization (IVF) and improves the chances of having a healthy baby. However, it is not a guarantee.
● During IVF, doctors use PGT-A testing to check the number of chromosomes in each embryo. They want to make sure the embryos are healthy before putting them back in the uterus for a possible pregnancy. A normal embryo has 23 pairs of chromosomes, which adds up to 46 chromosomes.
● The most widely used embryo grading scale for blastocysts is the Gardner Grading Scale. See ASRM guidelines: Grading Scales | American Society for Reproductive Medicine | ASRM
● Embryos that have not undergone PGT-A have equivalent success rates compared to PGT-A embryos

● Over 95% of vitrified embryos successfully survive the thawing process. However, it is important to understand that no process is able to provide an absolute guarantee. We suggest you match with more than one embryo if this is a worry of yours.
● We do accept slow freeze embryos that have a lower thaw/success rate, as we believe all embryo(s) deserve a chance at life. If you match with one of these, please have your lab team review the thaw protocol to ensure they are comfortable with the thawing requirements.

● Yes, we believe that every individual should have a right to become a parent, and welcome single recipients.

● No

● Age restrictions will be determined by the fertility clinic with which you are affiliated. AOK does not place an age limit on our recipient(s).

● No, we are an embryo donation matching service.
● Act of Kindness Embryo Donation does not perform any medical procedure or give any medical advice. We will always suggest and encourage that you speak with a medical professional for any medical questions prior to completing a match with us.

● Yes, we work with Arbor Fertility which is located in Chesterfield, Missouri. You may learn all about them by going to their website: www.arbor-fertility.com
● To schedule an in-person appointment: Phone: 314-806-229 Use Referral Code: AOK for a $50 discount on your initial consultation with Dr. Shvetha Zarek. This discount can only be applied for patients that are *self-pay.
● To schedule a virtual appointment: www.arbor-fertility.com/treatment-options/virtual-fertility-care Use Referral Code: AOK for a $50 discount on your initial virtual consultation with Dr. Shvetha Zarek. This discount can only be applied for patients that are *self-pay.
● If you are 45-55 or above, Arbor requires a consultation with your primary care provider (stress test), maternal fetal medicine physician, and a psychological screening. If cleared, each provider will provide you with a letter of medical clearance. Please let us know if you'd like a referral to any of these sources.

AOK and Arbor Fertility have created a bundle that includes the FET treatment!  

Package Fee: $10,000.00

Includes:

Matching Services: Personalized matching to find the perfect embryo for your family, lifetime access to our database, records management, and admin fees. 

Embryo Ownership Document Preparation and Execution: Professional assistance to ensure all ownership documents are in order, execution of transfer of ownership of the embryo(s), personalized summary of all embryo related records, shipping and/or treatment coordination with your receiving clinic.

Up to 3 Ultrasounds

Ultrasound Guided Embryo Transfer 

1 Virtual Follow Up Visit for Results 

1st year of embryo storage fees waived

Does not Include: 

EDC Nexus (Monitored Donor and Recipient Communication Dashboard) $500 Lifetime membership- This fee applies to all Semi-Open & Open embryo adoptions.

Processing Fees: 3% for credit card payments, 1% for bank transfers

Medications - Typically ranges from $800-$1,000

Diagnostic Testing and Infectious Disease screening - Can be billed to insurance by the Lab (Estimated $300 for self-pay but can be billed to insurance.)

● Yes, we can ship to your clinic as long as you have been medically cleared by your provider and they accept the embryo profile you are interested in matching with. We suggest speaking with us and your clinic prior to transferring ownership or shipping embryos. We have an internal process for shipping, and use a third-party carrier, CryoStork. The cost for shipping in the US is: $1,000.00, international shipments will require a quote to be sent. Contact us if you are interested in shipping internationally.

EDC Nexus is a unique registry designed to support embryo donors, their families -- and families created through their donations -- by keeping all parties updated on significant changes in medical histories. Members can easily share health-related and lifestyle information, or report changes as they happen, via a concise questionnaire, promoting the health and well-being of everyone connected to this journey. Additionally, EDC Nexus facilitates optional communication through a secure messaging platform to ensure privacy and ease of connection.   

Yes, we allow you to adopt embryos from more than one set at a time. Feel free to reach out to us to discuss this option in further detail.

Option 1: Donate Them Back to AOK

This is the preferred and easiest option. Acts of Kindness (AOK) will accept the unused embryos back into our program for donation. There are no charges to donate embryos back, and this option allows you to continue spreading hope by giving the joy of life to another family. Please note, this option does not provide compensation for the embryos.

Option 2: Discard the Embryos

If you have completed your family and do not wish to find a recipient for the remaining embryos, you may choose to discard them. This option is always available should you decide it is the best choice for you. Please note, this option does not provide compensation for the embryos.

Option 3: Private Matching

As the owners of the embryos, you have the option to gift the embryos to a recipient of your choosing through private matching. This allows you to personally select and transfer the embryos to another individual or couple. Please note, this option does not provide compensation for the embryos.